Comments on: Dissolved and Disillusioned http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/ A Blogoir: How I Made Friends with My Brain and Moved On Thu, 02 Sep 2010 01:22:33 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Emma http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-1882 Emma Mon, 12 Jul 2010 03:08:13 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-1882 Thanks for your nice comment! It's nice to connect with people with shared experience! Thanks for your nice comment! It’s nice to connect with people with shared experience!

]]> By: lifebeginsat30ty http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-1880 lifebeginsat30ty Mon, 12 Jul 2010 02:00:23 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-1880 Thanks for commenting on my blog so I could find yours! I've read a whole bunch here and there but want to start over from the beginning to get it all :) As for the divorce, I was out of the country so even only got signed papers in the mail! For closure though my best friend and I went out for dinner and toasted the end of my marriage. I think we really do need to come up with some kind of divorce ritual. Something to mark the passage and attain closure in a stylistic way. Oh, and of course there has to be cake. Thanks for commenting on my blog so I could find yours! I’ve read a whole bunch here and there but want to start over from the beginning to get it all :)

As for the divorce, I was out of the country so even only got signed papers in the mail! For closure though my best friend and I went out for dinner and toasted the end of my marriage. I think we really do need to come up with some kind of divorce ritual. Something to mark the passage and attain closure in a stylistic way. Oh, and of course there has to be cake.
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]]> By: Anne Bender http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-1117 Anne Bender Mon, 10 May 2010 15:11:45 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-1117 I hit traffic on my way to the courthouse and missed my appointment. My then-husband was aware of all of this and was hoping I had changed my mind. Luckily I was able to be moved to the end. I barely remember it except that it lasted about 5 minutes and was in a room with a conference table where we sat, signed a few things, and were done. I can say I remained best friends with my ex-husband until his death 2 years later. I hit traffic on my way to the courthouse and missed my appointment. My then-husband was aware of all of this and was hoping I had changed my mind. Luckily I was able to be moved to the end. I barely remember it except that it lasted about 5 minutes and was in a room with a conference table where we sat, signed a few things, and were done. I can say I remained best friends with my ex-husband until his death 2 years later.

]]> By: Shannon King http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-1001 Shannon King Tue, 04 May 2010 15:12:58 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-1001 So strange how a judge can quickly and precisely dissolve a marriage...So glad to have met you through WOW. .-= Shannon King´s last blog ..<a href="http://shananagins2468.blogspot.com/2010/05/scary-story.html" rel="nofollow">A Scary Story</a> =-. So strange how a judge can quickly and precisely dissolve a marriage…So glad to have met you through WOW.
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]]> By: Luz Sance http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-796 Luz Sance Wed, 14 Apr 2010 16:27:32 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-796 Kudos from one brainiac to another. :) Kudos from one brainiac to another. :)

]]> By: Emma http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-327 Emma Sat, 13 Feb 2010 01:41:14 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-327 Wow. I imagine the whole experience would be a lot different after ten years of marriage. Thanks for visiting! Wow. I imagine the whole experience would be a lot different after ten years of marriage. Thanks for visiting!

]]> By: Lara http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-325 Lara Fri, 12 Feb 2010 18:56:16 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-325 Thanks for stopping by earlier to comment at my blog. It's been over a year since my court date, but I remember spending hours after the divorce proceedings shoveling snow. I had all of this surreal energy and didn't know how to expel it! For me, the experience was sad. 10 years of being w/someone ending in a 10 minute exchange w/a judge in a barren courtroom was not how I imagined it either. I didn't eat cake, but I'm glad you did! Thanks for stopping by earlier to comment at my blog.
It’s been over a year since my court date, but I remember spending hours after the divorce proceedings shoveling snow. I had all of this surreal energy and didn’t know how to expel it!
For me, the experience was sad. 10 years of being w/someone ending in a 10 minute exchange w/a judge in a barren courtroom was not how I imagined it either. I didn’t eat cake, but I’m glad you did!

]]> By: Who I Would Miss « Divorced Before 30 http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-256 Who I Would Miss « Divorced Before 30 Sun, 31 Jan 2010 03:11:47 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-256 [...] I Would Miss I was fresh off a trip to divorce court and had a few more days in Illinois to make the transition to full-time telecommuting before [...] [...] I Would Miss I was fresh off a trip to divorce court and had a few more days in Illinois to make the transition to full-time telecommuting before [...]

]]> By: Jolene http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-245 Jolene Wed, 27 Jan 2010 14:28:44 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-245 Dissillusioned is a great way of putting it - it was such a surreal thing for me too. So simple yet the finality of it is what struck me. Walk up to the judge, answer a few questions, bam, done. Divorced. Part ways. But I love the outlook you have, and yes, cake, dammit, and heck, why not a cute NEW pair of jeans while we're at it?! Dissillusioned is a great way of putting it – it was such a surreal thing for me too. So simple yet the finality of it is what struck me. Walk up to the judge, answer a few questions, bam, done. Divorced. Part ways. But I love the outlook you have, and yes, cake, dammit, and heck, why not a cute NEW pair of jeans while we’re at it?!

]]> By: Emma http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/01/21/dissolved-and-disillusioned/comment-page-1/#comment-242 Emma Wed, 27 Jan 2010 01:37:03 +0000 http://divorcedbefore30.com/?p=180#comment-242 Thanks, J! I appreciate the SITS love! Thanks, J! I appreciate the SITS love!

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