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	<description>A Blogoir: How I Made Friends with My Brain and Moved On</description>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-1033</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 11:08:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks! It&#039;s a work in progress. This post is from November 2006, and I&#039;m currently writing about March 2007. So you&#039;re not too far behind!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks! It&#8217;s a work in progress. This post is from November 2006, and I&#8217;m currently writing about March 2007. So you&#8217;re not too far behind!</p>
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		<title>By: KT</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-1032</link>
		<dc:creator>KT</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 May 2010 10:59:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So, what has happened between then and now?  Have you blogged about it?  I am going to have to catch up now.  Loved what I read today.  Thanks for sharing your stories.
.-= KT&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://iamagrownup.wordpress.com/2010/05/05/girl-talk/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;girl talk&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So, what has happened between then and now?  Have you blogged about it?  I am going to have to catch up now.  Loved what I read today.  Thanks for sharing your stories.<br />
<span class="cluv"> KT&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://iamagrownup.wordpress.com/2010/05/05/girl-talk/" rel="nofollow">girl talk</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Shannon King</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-1002</link>
		<dc:creator>Shannon King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 15:15:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Did you get any sleep after that, and did you two date again?
.-= Shannon King&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://shananagins2468.blogspot.com/2010/05/scary-story.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A Scary Story&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Did you get any sleep after that, and did you two date again?<br />
<span class="cluv"> Shannon King&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://shananagins2468.blogspot.com/2010/05/scary-story.html" rel="nofollow">A Scary Story</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: c.c.</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-991</link>
		<dc:creator>c.c.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 May 2010 05:22:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>why do we pull away? i think it&#039;s because, to some, need comes across as weak. and since we&#039;re never sure who might think that way and because the person doing the needing might feel that way him- or herself, we don&#039;t let others in. one of your readers commented that we don&#039;t want to burden others. i think it&#039;s more than that. we want to be liked. and when the world doesn&#039;t go the happy-go-lucky way, we&#039;re afraid if we unload, we won&#039;t be.
.-= c.c.&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://smartassdirect.blogspot.com/2010/05/and-ye-shall-be-rewarded.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;and ye shall be rewarded&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>why do we pull away? i think it&#8217;s because, to some, need comes across as weak. and since we&#8217;re never sure who might think that way and because the person doing the needing might feel that way him- or herself, we don&#8217;t let others in. one of your readers commented that we don&#8217;t want to burden others. i think it&#8217;s more than that. we want to be liked. and when the world doesn&#8217;t go the happy-go-lucky way, we&#8217;re afraid if we unload, we won&#8217;t be.<br />
<span class="cluv"> c.c.&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://smartassdirect.blogspot.com/2010/05/and-ye-shall-be-rewarded.html" rel="nofollow">and ye shall be rewarded</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: My Little Champ &#171; Divorced Before 30</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-557</link>
		<dc:creator>My Little Champ &#171; Divorced Before 30</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 03:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] I have to admit, I am struggling a bit. It&#8217;s hard to explain, but I will try. Last Tuesday was sort of a leap of faith on both of our parts. I like that it was a mutual leap, with each of us [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] I have to admit, I am struggling a bit. It&#8217;s hard to explain, but I will try. Last Tuesday was sort of a leap of faith on both of our parts. I like that it was a mutual leap, with each of us [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Blissed-Out Grandma</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-466</link>
		<dc:creator>Blissed-Out Grandma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 00:06:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A pseudo-date with a friend...no pressure, no awkwardness...perfect situation! If this is going where I think it&#039;s going, you have something in common with my daughter. I look forward to reading more of your story!
.-= Blissed-Out Grandma&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://blissedoutgrandma.blogspot.com/2010/02/i-feel-pretty-oh-so-pretty.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;I Feel Pretty, Oh So Pretty&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A pseudo-date with a friend&#8230;no pressure, no awkwardness&#8230;perfect situation! If this is going where I think it&#8217;s going, you have something in common with my daughter. I look forward to reading more of your story!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Blissed-Out Grandma&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://blissedoutgrandma.blogspot.com/2010/02/i-feel-pretty-oh-so-pretty.html" rel="nofollow">I Feel Pretty, Oh So Pretty</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: BLOGitse</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-454</link>
		<dc:creator>BLOGitse</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 09:04:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“Happy SITS Saturday Sharefest” from sunny Cairo!
.-= BLOGitse&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Blogitse/~3/gQWojn74Ov0/your-words-my-image-woima-57.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;your WOrds my IMAge = WO*IMA #57&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Happy SITS Saturday Sharefest” from sunny Cairo!<br />
<span class="cluv"> BLOGitse&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/Blogitse/~3/gQWojn74Ov0/your-words-my-image-woima-57.html" rel="nofollow">your WOrds my IMAge = WO*IMA #57</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-452</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Feb 2010 01:23:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the support! Funny that we lived in the same town during all of this. I&#039;m sure it probably was the same courthouse. The banner pic was indeed from my wedding day. No PhotoShop--definitely an omen!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the support! Funny that we lived in the same town during all of this. I&#8217;m sure it probably was the same courthouse. The banner pic was indeed from my wedding day. No PhotoShop&#8211;definitely an omen!</p>
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		<title>By: Snark B</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-451</link>
		<dc:creator>Snark B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 20:47:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think I know where this is heading...  

I totally agree about timing.  

I&#039;ve taken the last few days to read your whole divorce story so far.  Interesting read.  I take it the banner pic is from your actual wedding? Was the sign there already or did you photoshop it in?  If it&#039;s real, then that was a remarkable omen!

When I read University Ave. and I-74 in your first few posts, I knew which city you&#039;re talking about.  I lived there too, the same time this was all happening.  My divorce would be two years later, probably in the same courthouse.  Funny.  You got divorced on my 35th birthday.  Also, like your littlest brother, I was a wrestler with two big brothers (and two big sisters) and who went to state.  Anyway, just thought I would share these coincidences. 

Keep writing! I can&#039;t wait to see if you end up with the old pirate or the philandering geek. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think I know where this is heading&#8230;  </p>
<p>I totally agree about timing.  </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve taken the last few days to read your whole divorce story so far.  Interesting read.  I take it the banner pic is from your actual wedding? Was the sign there already or did you photoshop it in?  If it&#8217;s real, then that was a remarkable omen!</p>
<p>When I read University Ave. and I-74 in your first few posts, I knew which city you&#8217;re talking about.  I lived there too, the same time this was all happening.  My divorce would be two years later, probably in the same courthouse.  Funny.  You got divorced on my 35th birthday.  Also, like your littlest brother, I was a wrestler with two big brothers (and two big sisters) and who went to state.  Anyway, just thought I would share these coincidences. </p>
<p>Keep writing! I can&#8217;t wait to see if you end up with the old pirate or the philandering geek. <img src='http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Liz</title>
		<link>http://divorcedbefore30.com/2010/02/25/pseudo-date/comment-page-1/#comment-450</link>
		<dc:creator>Liz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:50:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ooo, how was the morning! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ooo, how was the morning! <img src='http://divorcedbefore30.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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